Failure is the most important part of our life even though we all hate it. In order to consider your self successful you must have been achieved something’s that others have failed to achieve. Beside if there were no failures in life then there wouldn’t be much to live for, real life it’s all about overcoming challenges, failing sometimes and just pushing.

The fact is everyone do have weaknesses which is being explored every now and then which sot of guarantees that some how somewhere you will fail. The question that matters is that, is there anyone who is born to fail? And why other people seem to always fail in everything they try to do?

Well the truth is no one is born to be a failure because each and everyone is born with a purpose. The most important thing is to know exactly your strengths and weaknesses in that way you will know what you can handle and what you can’t in life. People who always experience failure in their lifes most of them they don’t know what they want in life and they don’t know what are their strengths and weaknesses and most importantly they don’t understand the fact that in life sometimes you don’t get exactly what you want so you have to compromise.

Perseverance, hardworking and good attitude are the best tools that you can use in order to neutralize failure. No matter what you are doing or how small or seems useless it is… if you don’t persevere or put good attitude towards that thing you are increasing chances of failure which is why staying focus at all times is another tool of defeating failure in your life.

Life would be boring if people had no fear of failing when doing things. No one would put more effort when doing things because the results would be already known, if failure did not exist there wouldn’t be anything to conquer and most importantly failing does destroy other peoples lifes but again having not anything to conquer in life would just be meaningless.


marriage is a agreement between two people and God. Marriage is all about happiness, support, sadness etc regardless of same gender partners. Gay marriage has finally been legalized in some countries including South Africa even though society still finds it as a disgusting thing.

Society is still struggling with accepting the fact that everyone is allowed to marry who ever they love or desire to have future with. Gay couples are still facing the reality of being chased away from churches and being humiliated in the public but not as much as before the legalization of same gender marriage because now the state have created rights and constitution that protects them.

Some people wonder how it feels being on same gender marriage, well there isn’t that much of a difference except execution of sexual activities besides that there is no difference. Same gender marriage still requires support of the community, friends and family which in most of the time they don’t get.

What do friends and families of gay couples think? Most of them are not supportive at all as they believe that God created male and female not only one gender, so they believe they are living against bible or what God wants which is why they discriminate them and most of the gay couples are disowned by their families and friends which makes it difficult to be a gay.

Gay couples needs acceptance in the society and support so that they too can feel free and get happiness. South African government have established variety of campaigns to create awareness and promote peace for gay couples. Ever since the establishment of campaigns there are many people disclosing their status from political members to celebraties and they are now working together to create a better society for all and to prove the strategy is working there are international gay couples who comes to get married in the country especially in cape town.


Being an introvert is something that most of people see as a cool thing. Introverts are known as very calm, mature, thinking before acting which is a good thing. Most of introverts are paying close attention to everything they do and they do it to the best of their abilities.

The question that matters is that how quite should introverts be? People find them very boring and in most of the time they have no friends and they can get very lonely but not as much as you may think because after all they do enjoy spending time alone. Introverts are seen as most easy people to be taken advantage of and in most cases they are subjected to being bullied especially in public places because they known to be unable to defend themselves especially in the crowd.

Items of friendship wise Introverts may be seen as most untrusting and and not disclosing of their emotions and what they are feeling at the moment which is very true. Gaining trust of an introverted person is very hard as they are not kind of an open people. 

Introverts in most of the time they bottle their emotions rather than sharing them which is why they may give an perception of not trusting people even though that may not be the case. The good thing about befriending introverts is that they are very loyal and once you gained their trust you can go a very long way.

People often refer themselves as introverts where else they know nothing about being an introvert. They have no idea of what it means to be an introvert, they only refers themselves as introverts just because of the dignity that comes with being introverted.

People needs to understand that if a person is Introverted and can’t actually cope well in the crowd it doesn’t mean that is an opportunity for you to show your superior or charm other people using that person.