Starting life on new slit.

Fresh start has never been easy for most of people because they live by the say of better what you know than what you don’t even though they could feel that their current situation is not working out but just the fear not knowing what’s next should they change their current position. Having to dwell in the past that didn’t even work for you is like taking few steps back in your life because that’s a guarantee of failure in life because you are not benefiting anything.

People must learn to let go of their past and just start over on the clean slit regardless of what they might have done in their past. In life when you want to start over you require to have vision of kind of new future that you want and all of achievements you want and most importantly how are going to achieve all of that. In short I just want people not to be afraid of letting go of their past and starting over new life even if it means letting go of your friends and other hobbies, if it means be so let it be so.

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LOVE LANGUAGE

How does love speak?                                     In the faint flush upon the telltale cheeks And in the pallor that succeeds it; by           The quivering lid of an averted eye–           The smile that proves the parent to a sigh Thus doth Love speak.

How does love speak?                                     By the uneven heart-throbs, and the freak Of bounding pulses that stand still and ache,                                                                   while new emotions, like strange berges make                                                                   Along vein-channels that disturbing course;                                                               Still as dawn, and with the dawn’s swift force–                                                                 Thus love speak.

How does love speak?                                     In avoidance of that which we seek–           The sudden silence and reserve when near–                                                                   The eye that glistens with an unsheed tear–                                                                   The joy that seems the counterpart of fear,                                                                     As glamed heart leaps in the breast;           And knows, and names the greets.

Originally written by Ella wheeler wilcox

        

IF ONLY SHE KNEW

She has her own special way                     Of turning around my terrible day.             She makes all the bad things go away         The second that she says hey.

And when I look into her eyes,                      I see pure beauty with no disguise.             Just a glance at her makes my heartbeat rise.                                                                      I knew for a fact that these feelings aren’t lies.

If only she knew                                               How much my love for her grew,                 Maybe, just maybe,  we could start something new,                                                 And then I’d never feel blue.

And if beauty were inches, she’d go on for miles.                                                                   I’d better catch her before I go out of style.                                                                   I’m going to let my heart be my dial             So I can tell her what I’ve been feeling for a while.                                                                

This poem was taken from the internet.

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!

Valentine’s day is about showing love and appreciation to your partner and just enjoying each other regardless of issues you might be having. So people think they can’t enjoy Valentine’s day just because they don’t have money to buy their partners gift’s where else that is not the case because there are so many ways in which they can express their love even by just saying I LOVE YOU to your partner it might mean a lot to them as many of them those are the words they don’t get to hear regularly.

The question here is DO PEOPLE ONLY SHOW LOVE ON THIS DAY ONLY? and the answer is yes, most of them do which is not how it is supposed to be because everyone appreciate to be loved everyday not just one day. People need to get used to appreciating their partners on daily basis, I know sometimes love do feel like it fades away and it becomes little hard to show love as you might have lost interest or not feeling the need to do so any more. It is important to find ways of keeping the fire burning between you and your partner and maintain that spark because once the spark or that fire stops burning that’s where you start hearing I LOVE YOU only on Valentine’s day and maybe not even meaning that but saying for the sake of everyone is saying that.

Valentine’s day is about partners, girlfriend and boyfriend or husband and wife showing love to each other and reinforcing their love to each other but now what happens to bachelor’s or those with no girl/ boy friend? Are they excluded from celebration? Well my opinion is that even if you are not dating just take a opposite gender friend out and enjoy just like everyone else and don’t allow the pressure of not having a date get to you as it might result in you taking someone you don’t really like for the sake of closing the gap then you add to the number of those who only say I LOVE YOU to their partners only on Valentine’s day.

HOW FAR CAN YOU FAIL?

Have you ever been in the situation whereby everything you do or try to do just fail and sometimes it just fail while it’s still just an idea.

People often tell you to just keep pushing until something comes up but you feel like they don’t understand your situation because as far as your concern there is nothing to push. The most painful thing with failing is when you keep failing something that everyone get to succeed in, you end up thinking that there is something wrong with you and just give up to save all the disappointments.

Sometimes at your work you would just decide to give everything you have to perfect whatever job you do but at the end of the day your hard work is criticised and unacknowledged whereby your colleague just do for the sake of finishing yet their work looks better than yours, if that’s the case than what do you do? And what does it even mean?

Many people every beginning of the year they plan what they want to achieve for that particular year so that at the end they can scale their success but what happens if you achieve absolute non of them? Is that a normal thing or is there something wrong with you?

None the less most of people out there achieve their goals by luck and Mercy even though they hate to admite. Hard work is important only when you got that opportunity or platform of implementing.

ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM SOCIAL ISOLATION?

Have you ever been in a situation where you have friends and you socialize but you feel like they don’t understand you? They never see or realized the situation the way as you? If so what happens?

Well if you are in those situations then know that you are not alone infect lot of people are experiencing that. People who are experiencing those situations most often they decide to isolate themselves from public and note that isolation can happen to any one whether introvert or extrovert. People suffering from social isolation most often feels so lonely and feel like no one cares about even when that’s not the case.

Is social isolation a condition that can be treated? Well being social isolated is not something that a human being is meant to have, so it is a condition and can be treated. Public sees people suffering from this isolation condition as weird just because they don’t understand what social isolation is. Most often the society consider people with social isolation as introvert’s and you also find that people suffering from this condition call themselves introvert’s which is completely different thing because introversion is not a condition it’s just a natural personality.

People need to learn more about this condition so that people with this condition can get help they need and support. The problem that makes people with social isolation condition to never get help is because they never admits that they are isolated and they never considere this as a condition needing specialist attention.

ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM HEARTBURN?

Heartburn is an irritation of the esophagus that is caused by stomach  acid. This can create a burning discomfort in the breast bone.

Causes of heartburn                            the cause of heartburn is when your lower esophageal sphincter becomes weakened or relaxes abnormally. The lower esophageal sphincter is a circular band of muscle at the bottom of your esophagus. Normally when you swallow, your lower esophageal sphincter relaxes to let food and liquid flow down into your stomach. Then it closes again. When this happens the acid in your stomach can flow back up into your esophagus. Since your esophagus doesn’t have the same protective lining your stomach does, the acid can irritate it’s more sensitive tissues. This can trigger heartburn discomfort.

Food that can cause heartburn

  • Tomatoes, tomato sauce and ketchup
  • Oranges,grapefruit and other citrus fruits and juices
  • Garlic
  • Vinegar
  • Alcohol
  • Carbonated drinks
  • Coffee, tea or other caffeinated products
  • Mustard,pepper and other spices

Habits that may trigger heartburn

  • Eating large meals or eating too fast
  • Laying down right after eating
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Drinking alcohol and smoking 
  • Exercising soon after eating

Remedies for heartburn

  • A spoonful of baking soda
  • Aloe juice
  • Eat a banana or Apple
  • Gingerroot tea
  • Snack on almonds
  • A cup of chamomile
  • Heartburn tablets
  • Avoid alcohol and smoking

Most people suffer heartburn because of lack of knowledge and end up putting their health at risk. Reference of this article are adopted from internet and google.